First of all, don't call this post_process; that's a reserved function which Cadabra will call after every manipulation step. 
To do this, you need to somehow indicate where you want the 'argument' of the operator to go, otherwise a \partial_{\mu\nu} not acting on anything will be replaced with zero before it even makes it to the function. Try something like the code below:
import cdb.core.manip as manip
\partial{#}::PartialDerivative;
def appop(ex, op):
   t1=manip.get_lhs(ex)
   t2=manip.get_rhs(ex)
   o1:= @(op);
   o2:= @(op);
   for arg in o1:
      if arg.name=='#':
         arg.replace(t1)
   for arg in o2:
      if arg.name=='#':
         arg.replace(t2)
   ex.top().replace( $@(o1) = @(o2)$ )
   return ex
You can then do
ex:= A = B;
appop(ex, $\partial_{\mu\nu}{#}$);
to get the result
$$\partial_{\mu\nu}{A} = \partial_{\mu\nu}{B}$$
You may want to add some error checking code for when you feed it a single expression, not an equation.